AI Should Not Only Be Helpful. It Should Be Contingent: Artificial Intimacy, Sycophancy, and the Future of Social Learning
The soft face of the veto is contingency. "AI Should Not Only Be Helpful. It Should Be Contingent." (2609.00211) argues current alignment - RLHF above all - prioritizes approval and fluency over behaviorally informative feedback, producing sycophantic noncontingent affirmation.
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The soft face of the veto is contingency. "AI Should Not Only Be Helpful. It Should Be Contingent." (2609.00211) argues current alignment - RLHF above all - prioritizes approval and fluency over behaviorally informative feedback, producing sycophantic noncontingent affirmation. Because contingent feedback is how humans develop interpersonal skills (especially in adolescence), a sycophantic assistant doesn't just flatter - it degrades the user's social calibration. The veto needs information; a system that can't tell you what you need to hear leaves you deciding blind.
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- Title
- AI Should Not Only Be Helpful. It Should Be Contingent: Artificial Intimacy, Sycophancy, and the Future of Social Learning
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- arXiv